We all know the 10 year gap rule when it comes to relationships but recently I’m hearing my friends and mail in particular say that the 10 year gap can be detrimental to a relationship especially in the year 2020, let me explain. The thought behind this was told to me that people have changed & the way individuals are these days are different than it was 20yrs ago. Meaning back 20 years ago even if there were a 10 year gap you pretty much still enjoyed the same type of music, fashion, hairstyles etc. Before people couldn’t wait to get older and experience things nowadays even as you get older people want to be younger and it causes problems in the relationship. It was told to me by a very close friend that mentally nowadays 10 years is more like 20 years. I don’t know if I agree with that but I do and said that a 10 year gap is a little different than it was back in the day. How do you feel about this?